If I am ever to truly have enlightened relationship, I must be willing to practice mind intervention… a way of changing my mind and creating a new mind.
Whenever I am thinking the same limited thoughts, I am continuing the same old habits and ways of being. If I am to advance and move to a higher level of being, I must welcome new thoughts, ideas and experiences – think outside my same old box.
A Mind Intervention Practice consists of creating first an enlightened, deep, loving relationship in your mind. Write about it. Become aware of how this relationship is different or similar to past experiences with your love partner. Those aspects of the relationship you desire that are NOT part of your past experience will be the part needing chemical re-programming in your body/mind.
Next, create a written scenario that describes your loving relationship. Talk about new ways of thinking, feeling and being… and this is as much about YOU as your partner.
Remember, you are the one that is re-programming. Your partner will change, when you change. Or, you will attract that person or relationship once you have a place for it in your biochemistry.
Know that if your partner goes to great lengths to change and YOU have NOT CHANGED your thinking, feeling and being – eventually you will experience the old pattern because that is all you can experience.
Lastly, commit to imagining this scenario EVERY DAY for 7 weeks at least 30-60 minutes each day in meditation. Do your best. This practice will change your life.
People who approach love and relationship from these higher perspectives and higher mind, experience enlightened relationship. I choose now to understand my relationships in a more evolved, advanced manner. I choose to open my mind to new possibilities and ways of thinking and being. The following thoughts are part of my mind intervention practice based on studies of body/mind science. I choose to believe:
That I am the creator of my experiences…
That I have everything to do with the joy and pain in my life...
That everything around me is a mirror of my unconscious thoughts, feelings, ways of doing and being stored in my mind/body...
That I can be the master of my thoughts and feelings...
That what I am experiencing right now is a familiar pattern – one that is neuro-chemically imprinted in my brain/body/mind …
That my perceptions come from my past memories and experiences...
That I am emotionally addicted to these perceptions because my brain chemistry craves the same experience…
That I am willing to discover the unconscious habits that are now stored in my mind/body…
That I am ready to do whatever it takes to do my own mind intervention and create a new reality…
That I am ready to evolve my being, my brain, my life and my relationships…
That I am ready to create and activate new neural networks so I can think, feel, act and become all that I choose to be…
That I am ready to experience a new level of love and enlightened relationship...
That I can apply these principles to everything in my life…
Enlightened relationship is about commitment to my evolution. Enlightened relationship is about commitment to a process that sits deep within my soul – one in which I become willing to really change my perception of things, maybe even everything.
Somehow, this information must catch me (or you) at just the moment when we are ready to know something more. Otherwise, we will be thinking the same old thing – not ready for anything new to hit our brain cells. (And that is must literally, in order for change to occur.)
I suppose there is that right moment for everyone… that time when we really get something at a new level of consciousness. Well, I finally get it! The brain chemistry studies and written works really opened my mind to understanding why I have been unable to follow through with healthy actions, communication and higher ways of being with all my love and close relationships. I thank the Universe for this.
Evolution is not about accepting mediocrity or abuse. Higher consciousness is not about condoning unhealthy or dysfunctional behavior in our loved ones that hurt us. Evolution and higher consciousness is about HOW WE PROCESS what happens, however… how we communicate our feelings, and how we take responsibility to see our part in all the
experiences of our life.
This is an evolutionary process, helping us know ourselves more deeply and honoring the great mystery of all that is. I continue to commit myself always to learning more and perceiving all my relationships, even those that have hurt deeply - as sacred.
Every part of all my relationships are forever changed as I practice these principles and Secrets of the Universe. These writings have been a study about learning to be
in relationship without taking responsibility for our loved one's feelings or pain or even their success or joy. Freedom in relationship is about becoming very clear about your own codependency - the roles you continue to play with others... your intimate partner as well as family, friends and colleagues.
I commit now to practicing the art and skill of freedom in relationship... moving toward more love and CARE FOR SELF. I realize that when I truly heal and take care of ALL of
my own issues, I am able to love more deeply. I now walk into the mystery and
sacred space that relationship takes me.
This work honors the universal truth that tells us: Every relationship I have is mirroring
something about me that is wanting to come up into consciousness for my healing and transformation... for my wholeness and the evolution of my soul. AND, Whenever I have a problem or issue with you, I have an opportunity to heal and transform something inside me ... like an unresolved old wound or trauma, something I lost, something I always needed, or something I do not even know – that has all been imprinted neurochemically in my mind/body.
And so it is - that now you know - every person you attract in your life is a part of your wholeness, a missing piece of the healing puzzle - that no matter what happens in this relationship, you are healing more because you are choosing to view every part of this relationship as a sacred thing moving you toward higher consciousness and the evolution of your being.
Much love,❤️
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